100 Ways to Love Your Man, the RIGHT Way
1. Respectfully communicate with him. 1a. s*x. s*x, s*x.. s*x for men is different. it is his way of physically, emotionally bonding with you. do not use s*x as a tool of manipulation ! 2. Let him know he’s important to you. 3. Purposefully try to understand his feelings—even when you disagree with him. 4. [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: Study Shows That Men Gossip More Than Women
Relationship expert, Paul Brunson, recently conducted an unofficial study to defy common thinking about men and their thoughts about relationships and dating. During his research, he found a study conducted by the Social Issues Research Centre that discovered 33 percent of men indulge in gossip daily or almost every day — compared with 26 percent [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: Research Shows Doubt Before Marriage Signals An Unhappy Ending
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” Research has proven what most of us already know but refuse to acknowledge: Doubt ruins relationships. Researchers at the University of California, Los Angeles, say their four-year study of 464 newlyweds finds those with uncertainty were less satisfied with their marriages, and women with doubts who took the plunge anyway were [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: There Really Is a Thin Line Between Love and Hate
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” I recently ran across a photo of Usher Raymond and his ex-wife Tameka Foster in court continuing their fight for custody of their two children- I’m assuming. This amazing photo captures a vast array of tensions. In the foreground, you see a solemn Usher appearing as if he’s trying to [...]
So What Will You Tell Your Son…How Do You Explain To Your Daughter?
im back, so wipe the crust out ya eyes!…lol DISCLAIMER: these posts are not in any form intended to step on any toes. These are merely my thoughts, experiences, and actions put into words hopefully to reach someone in similar situations. My poor lil brain is always in overdrive over a topic or hundred per [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: Is Trash the New Class?
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” I was a bit baffled by Vibe Magazine’s choice in placing reality “stars” on the front of its June/July cover and referring to them as “role models”. There is a trend in hip-hop in which women who were once looked upon as a disgrace to society are now exulted and [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: 4 Ways to Identify a Man with ‘Potential’
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” I recently had a conversation with a group of single ladies about whether or not they’d consider dating a man who is unemployed and/or working an entry-level job. Majority of the ladies said no- stating the man’s ability to financially support the relationship (e.g. dinner and a movie) and [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: 5 Common Characteristics of the ‘Side Chic’
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” We all know at least one woman (young and old) who has carried on an affair with a man who is already in a relationship with someone else. These women are usually discreet about the affair unless a large sum of money becomes available. The “side chic”, i.e. woman helping [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: 4 Instant Ways to Know Someone Is Attracted to You
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” For most people, first interactions with someone can be quite intimidating- especially if that “someone” is a person they’re attracted to. Obvious signs of nervousness are easy ways to identify whether or not someone is attracted to you. 1. Trembling Hands. If you are exchanging numbers or even a hand [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: Chris Brown Is Exuding Signs of a Bitter Ex-Boyfriend
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” R&B recording artist Chris Brown recently hit the studio to record the remix to Kanye West’s “Theraflu” record. The media was abuzz with rumors that Chris Brown dissed Rihanna in the song. Peep the lyrics below: “Don’t f**k with my old b***h, it’s like a bad fur Every industry n***a [...]
Black folks! Don’t use the Bible to condemn gay marriage
In this video, I talk about how it is wrong to use a book that was utilized to justify the enslavement of Africans and African Americans as a reason not to support gay marriage. [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pJfv6iDV8BA&w=420&h=315]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: Identifying the ‘Bathroom Lover’
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” I am usually floored by some of the stories my clients share with me about women/men who they consider to be their ‘bathroom lover’. The bathroom lover is the person contacted solely to fulfill a desire for s*x. The bathroom analogy stems from our everyday interaction with the bathroom. When [...]
Man With 21 Kids by 11 Women: My Thoughts About BabyMomma #11
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” Recently, news broke about the 29 year old man with 21 kids by 11 different women. My first thought was “This can’t be true.” To my disappointment, the story is indeed a true story and one man, 11 women and 21 children are going to suffer severely from this situation. [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: Did the POTUS Forget Michelle Obama???
by Ree, The (Ree)lationship Guide. Residents of Ohio cheered as a vibrant and smiling President Obama emerged from the Air Force One aircraft upon landing. The cheers abruptly faded as one spectator asked “Where’s he going?” President Obama charged back into the aircraft and reappeared with a gleaming Michelle Obama on his arm. It [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: Are Black Men ‘Bitter’ About Love?
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” In 2005, Tyler Perry’s film titled “Diary of a Mad Black Woman” attempted to shed light on possible reasons why African American females are “angry” in regards to love and relationships. Four years later, Tim Alexander filmed a narrative/documentary titled “Diary of a Tired Black Man” that displayed video footage [...]