Boy takes his own life after bullying becomes too much

Tragedies like this one are just too much to bear.  You rarely know that your children are having serious problems coping with their struggles and sometimes we find out too late.  This story should tell us the importance of protecting our kids from bullies and also teaching them that taking their own lives is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Dr. Sinclair Grey III has the story:

No parent ever wants their child to face bullying. Unfortunately, when bullying leads to a child taking their own life, questions must be raised and solutions must be sought out immediately.

In Florida, a family is grieving at the loss of Lamar Hawkins, III, a 14-year-old who took his own life inside Greenwood Lake Middle School last week. It appears that the boy was repeatedly bullied and decided that fighting was no longer an option.

Lamar Hawkins’ mother, Shaniqua Hawkins, told reporters that her family moved from New York to Florida with the hope and desire that Lamar wouldn’t be bullied.

Lamar, who was called Shaq had stunted growth. Family members believe that made him an easy target to be picked on and bullied. He was described by all who knew him as a ‘happy boy.’

Authorities say that Lamar use a gun to  end his life in the bathroom on Wednesday.  The weapon had been stored properly by his father, but the boy got access to it somehow.

Bullying is tragic no matter the victim. Living in fear everyday of being picked on and in many cases, terrorized can leave many of our youth lost and confused.

Dr. Walt Griffin, the Seminole County Superintendent released the following statement:

“This is a very tragic circumstance and our hearts and prayers remain with the family during this difficult time. We are aware the family held a press conference this morning and allegations of bullying were discussed. The School Board has a comprehensive bullying policy that is fully enforced in all of our schools. We must remind everyone that this is an ongoing law enforcement investigation and Seminole County Public Schools has cooperated fully from the beginning as the Seminole County Sheriff’s Office works diligently to gather the facts surrounding this tragedy. The school district remains firmly committed to assisting the family, our students, faculty and staff with support as they continue to grieve and heal. Additional counselors are in place at the school and will remain for as long as necessary.”

Source: Wesh.com

Dr. Sinclair Grey III is an inspirational speaker, motivator, author, life coach, and host of The Sinclair Grey Show heard on Monday’s at 2pm on WAEC Love 860am (iHeart Radio and Tune In). Contact him at drgrey@sinclairgrey.org or on Twitter @drsinclairgrey


10 Comment

  1. My prayers are with his family, and may the bully change his ways as a result of this tragedy. May GOD hold you guys just a bit tighter, because parents should not have to bury their kids because of this type of nonsense

  2. Heart felt Condolences to the Hawkins family. May Lamar RIH & the Lord have MERCY on his SOUL.

  3. my prayer to his family ,but have gotten to the point the poor baby just had enough, we have to teach our kids that it is not nice to pick on some one no matter what they look like just so sad,hope they get all those kids and hold the parent for there behavior.

  4. Parents, please talk to your kids about suicide! Explain to them that as they enter puberty, their problem solving skills might not be up to the challenges they face. Let them know that there are adults that they can talk to, and that suicide is never a good option.

  5. This is a sad story, My heart goes out to the family. I see stories like this and relate to them, because I was bullied in school for years and I considered suicide, it was so bad to me I hated going to school and it effected my school work, I don't know how I got through it, im 48 now and when I hear about this happening to another young Black male, it hurts.

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