The (Ree)lationship Guide: 3 Ways to Kill the Cheater in You
by Ree, “The (Ree)lationship Guide” Although 80% of Americans believe cheating is wrong, the percentage of adults admitting to cheating on their significant other is increasing. Unfortunately, there isn’t a “quick fix” for this behavior, as some cheaters claim it’s an addiction (not according to research) [...]
The (Ree)lationship Guide: 3 Reasons Why Chivalry is Dying and It’s Your Fault
I frequently hear complaints about chivalry from my clients. The biggest complaint from the ladies? Chivalry is diminishing. The biggest complaint from the males? Chivalry isn’t appreciated. Below is a list of the top 3 reasons why chivalry is dying at our own account. 1. Lack of Self-Respect People can “sniff” low self-esteem in another [...]
Expert Advice: How to Get Married and Stay that Way (Video)
In the video below, Dr. Boyce Watkins speaks with George James, a relationship counselor. James describes the steps to finding and keeping a healthy marriage.
Michelle Alexander’s ‘New Jim Crow’ Raises The Debate On Drug Laws
Garry McCarthy, a 30-year veteran of law enforcement, did not expect to hear anything too startling when he appeared at a conference on drug policy organized last year by an African-American minister in Newark, where he was the police director. But then a law professor named Michelle Alexander took the stage and delivered an [...]
Inconsistency: Relationship Suicide
When I’m asked what a couple can do to reinforce or restore passion in their relationship, I always ask about things they consistently did in the past. Yes, it’s great to be innovative and bring new ideas to a relationship; however, your relationship should have a few consistencies that are regarded as sacred. Some common [...]
Ex-Marine Killed by Police, Raises Questions
The niece stood in the darkened stairwell of the Winbrook Houses, listening, as 20 feet away five police officers yelled at her uncle, who had locked himself in his apartment. It was 5:25 on a chill November morning. The officers banged loud and hard, demanding that her 68-year-old uncle open his door. “He was [...]
Too $hort Release Positive Video: Watch ‘Trying to Come Up’
Uncle Too $hort has released the music video for his latest release, “Trying to Come Up.” The track from his Cd “No TrespASSing,” features CO and is in stores now. The album includes collaborations with Snoop Dogg, 50 Cent, Twista, E-40, Rico Tha Kidd, Dom Kennedy and more. “Trying to Come Up” is [...]
Love and the Black Church: 10 Things Your Pastor Won’t Say About Dating and Relationships
For centuries there has been a unique, close-knit relationship between black people (particularly black women) and the black church. Below is a list of things your pastor won’t tell you in regards to dating and relationships: 1. You should date, daily. Dating daily is important to acquire a better understanding of yourself and people [...]
Nick Cannon Says Lupus is Attacking His Kidneys
Nick Cannon has revealed to the public that he has an autoimmune disease that attacks his kidneys. The disease is called lupus nephritis. “It’s a rare form of lupus that’s just attacking my kidneys,” Cannon told ABC’s “Good Morning America.” “They thought it was just kidney disease, and then they were trying to figure out why [...]
Cussing, Cooking and Beating Your Kids: Black Motherhood Re-examined
by Dr. Boyce Watkins, Black Like Moi Janelle Harris wrote an interesting article at Essence.com discussing stereotypes of black mothers in America. The title of the article was quite compelling: “Black Moms Do More Than Cook, Cuss and Beat their Kids.” Like everyone else, I thought back to the women who’ve influenced me in [...]
Dyson, Watkins Debate The State of Hip Hop at Brown University
In the video below, Dr. Boyce Watkins debates with Michael Eric Dyson on whether or not hip hop artists should be held accountable for their words. The video is below and will begin after a brief advertisement:
Another NFL Player Divorced: It’ll Cost Him Half a Million and a Land Rover
Chris Clemons of the Seattle Seahawks is the latest celeb to be divorced from his wife. It probably doesn’t surprise anyone that adultery was listed as one of the grounds for divorce. Clemons’ wife filed for separation in 2010 and she’ll receive the princely sum of $500,000 and a Land Rover for her [...]
Rapper Too Short Claims Execs Told Him Not to Release Positive Music
Exclusive: Short says Jive Records pushed him to be exclusively nasty and that the major labels plotted to keep positive Rap off the radio airwaves. He also explains the Dangerous Crew’s disbanding. During his recent interview with HipHopDX, the purveyor of punany raps, Too Short, addressed allegations that he had encouraged the s****l assault of young girls [...]
Mike Epps Daughter: “He Threatened to F*ck Me Up”
Comedian Mike Epps is having some daughter trouble apparently. The actor and funny man had a complaint filed against him by his 18-year old daughter, according to TMZ. Bria Epps told police that her father threatened to “F*ck her up” during a recent family argument. “Bria tells TMZ, the argument started when Mike appeared on [...]
Dr. Boyce: How Does Pres. Obama Fit Into Black History?
For many centuries, the epitome of African American achievement has been to become the first black president. We once talked about it like it was the impossible dream, or the ultimate sign that we have arrived. Well, Barack Obama didn’t just talk about the dream, he went out and turned it into a [...]