100 Ways to Love Your Man, the RIGHT Way

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1. Respectfully communicate with him.

1a. sex. sex, sex.. sex for men is different. it is his way of physically, emotionally bonding with you. do not use sex as a tool of manipulation !

2. Let him know he’s important to you.

3. Purposefully try to understand his feelings—even when you disagree with him.

4. Show interest in his friends giving him some time with them if they’re trust-worthy.

5. Let go of the small stuff. We all have annoying habits and preferences that are different from our spouse’s. (Dave Ramsey)

6. Tell him you both love him AND like him.

7. Either show interest in his hobbies or allow him space to participate freely. (D Ramsey)

8. Protect his dignity on a daily basis.

9. When confronting him, realize he has feelings also.

10. Foster an atmosphere of laughter in your home. Look for ways to laugh together.

11. Try not to make sudden major changes without discussion, giving him time to adjust.

12. When you go out on a date together don’t bring up problems—have fun instead.

13. Focus on what he’s doing right, instead of focusing so often on the negatives.

14. Show interest in what he feels is important in life.

15. Give him special time with you apart from the children.

16. The first minutes after a spouse comes home often sets the stage for how the rest of the evening will go. Try to make that time a positive experience. (Ease into the negative.)

17. Give him time to unwind after he gets home from work. Your evenings will be much more enjoyable. (Dave Ramsey)

18. Don’t allow family members to treat him disrespectfully. Defend him to anyone that dishonors his place as your husband.

19. Compliment him often.

20. Be creative when you express your love, both in words and in actions.

21. Talk with him about having specific family goals for each year to achieve together to feel closer as a marital team.

22. Don’t over commit yourself. Leave time for him.

23. Extend God’s grace to him and be forgiving when he offends you.

24. Find ways to show him you need him.

25. Give him time to be alone. (This energizes him to reconnect at other times.)

26. Admit your mistakes; don’t be afraid to be humble. Peel away your pride.

27. Defend him to those who disrespectfully talk about him. Love protects (1 Cor. 13:7).

28. Respect his desire to do well—not his performance.

29. Rub his feet or neck, or scratch his back after a hard day.

30. Take time for the two of you to sit and talk calmly (schedule it when necessary).

31. Initiate going out on romantic outings (when he’s not tired).

32. Email him when he’s at work, telling him how much you love him.

33. Surprise him with a fun gift of some kind that he’d really enjoy.

34. Express how much you appreciate him for working so hard to support the family.

35. Tell him how proud you are of him for who he is (giving him specific reasons).

36. Give advice in a loving way — not in a nagging or belittling way.

37. Help your husband to be the Spiritual head at home (without “lording” it over him).

38. Reserve some energy for him so you’re not so tired when he wants you sexually.

39. Don’t expect him to do projects beyond his natural capabilities.

40. Pray for him to enjoy God’s best in life.

41. Take special notice for what he has done for you and the family.

42. Brag about him to other people both in front of him and even when he’s not there.

43. Keep conversations brief when he’s tired—so he isn’t “flooded” by too many words.

44. Tell him 3 things you specifically appreciate about him.

45. Honor him in front of the children (differ respectfully in private when necessary).

46. ”Look straight into the eyes of your husband when he talks to you or if you’re speaking to him. This will make him feel that you are interested in what he wants to say.” (J. Clain)

47. Get up with him, even when he gets up earlier than you want to and pray with him (you can go back to bed afterward, if possible —it’s a sacrifice worth making.)

48. Be his “help-mate” in whatever ways you sense he needs it.

49. Participate in shoulder-to-shoulder activities with him (like watching a movie and such) without talking. Sometimes men just like to BE with you and not talk.

50. Be a student of his ways so you show your love in ways he best comprehends it.

51. When your husband is in a bad mood give him time to recover. Don’t crowd him.

52. Help him to finish his goals, hobbies, or education when your see he needs it.

53. Treat him as if God has stamped on his forehead: “Handle With Care.”

54. Work to get rid of habits that annoy him.

55. Be kind and thoughtful to his relatives. Don’t make him choose between you.

56. Don’t compare his relatives with yours in a negative way.

57. Thank him for things he’s done around the house. (It means a lot to men).

58. Don’t expect credit for all you do for him. Do it as “unto the Lord.”

59. Make sure he agrees with everything important that you’re planning to do.

60. Do little things for him—let him sleep in, bring him coffee, etc.

61. Don’t belittle his intelligence or be cynical in your words with him.

62. Initiate sex periodically. And respond more often.

63. Sometimes let him enjoy his day off work without having to “work” at home.

64. Get to the point in your discussions. Spare him details unless he wants them.

65. Discover his sexual needs.

66. Surprise him with a 15 second kiss when he gets home from work.

67. Wink at him from across the room when you’re out at a group function.

68. Give him the benefit of the doubt when he mis-speaks.

69. Don’t quarrel over words.

70. Be kind and courteous with him. (Don’t be kinder to strangers than to him.)

71. When things go wrong, instead of assessing blame, focus on how to do better.

72. As a kindness, don’t say, “I told you so.”

73. Try not to argue over money. Peacefully discuss future expenditures instead.

74. Take him out on dates—pre-planning all of the details ahead of time.

75. Hold his hand and snuggle up close to him at times both at home and in public.

76. Praise his good decisions; minimize the bad ones.

77. Tell him you love him more often.

78. Put love notes in his pockets and brief case.

79. Sit with him while he’s watching TV—even if the program doesn’t interest you.

80. Don’t expect him to read your mind (despite your thinking he should— extend grace).

81. Periodically, give him time with his family alone.

82. Check with him before you throw away his papers and stuff, when possible.

83. Put effort in to keep yourself in good shape so he’s especially proud to be with you.

84. Let him express himself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical.

85. Carefully choose your words. Remember to “speak the truth in LOVE.”

86. Don’t criticize him in front of others—keeping his dignity in tact.

87. Visit his childhood home with him.

88. When you’re angry, express it in respectful ways. Don’t give the silent treatment.

89. Pray for him.

90. Make him homemade soup when he’s sick.

91. Look your best—dress to honor him and make him proud to be seen with you when you’re out together.

92. Support him when someone tries to put him down. Be his best cheer leader.

93. Don’t disagree with him in front of the children.

94. Take him for a weekend get-away without the children.

95. Cheer his successes whether in business or in other areas of everyday living.

96. Graciously teach him how to demonstrate his love for you.

97. Give him coupons to redeem—maybe for a back scratch or a shoulder rub.

98. Buy him a gift certificate to his favorite lunch spot and put it in his wallet.

99. Hide notes for him around the house where only he will find them.

100. Thank him for just being himself

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  1. Sonjia Lioness Mackey at 7:25 pm

    Great post with good tips. Where's the other side of this…100 ways for a man to show love to his wife HER way?

    • DeOndrae King Judah Moore at 10:14 pm

      can we have one thing to our-self you gotta admit everything is about how to treat a woman not how to treat a man we've been over looked in that area…and a lot of women can use pointers because i know how to treat a woman and some women only know how to be a mans woman not a woman to a man ……its a big difference……..

  2. Marsha Stillfoxyatfortyone Funches at 4:43 pm

    Nice! I will try cause I want my relationship to be successful. I love my man and I want to keep him!

  3. Satchmo Bang at 11:07 am

    I really enjoy the fact that this isn't a negative post. I must admit that I would like to share this but fear it would come off the wrong way to some women. But I must say this is right on point.This is powerful stuff right here that could immediatly change the outcome of a lot of relationships. By utilizing these principles we could make families whole again.

  4. Furman L. Sims Jr. at 9:45 pm

    Why is it everytime a article is wrote on how to treat men, women want to turn it around and say "I can go both ways!" The article was wrote for woman to treat men and leave it at that. If you want a article to read the way men should treat women, then you write one!

  5. kaylou at 2:38 pm

    Love this. women need to humble themselves and get rid of the attitude. Also I deffo agree that women should see this for what it is and take note, not make it about them. Thank you to the author. I aim to put this into practice and just love that God shines through the message.

  6. Anonymous at 7:12 pm

    This article can also help the single ladies get a man to like her. Of course some may not apply like the ones with children, but I find it fascinating that this article can help in many ways.

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  9. poulin at 1:03 am

    this is awesome. so incredible! i love my man and really wana keep him just for me. and this ways gives me reasons to work hard for my relationship. especially no. 89. pray for him
    oh my God
    love is spiritually beautiful ♡

  10. Loeffler at 5:23 pm

    Homemade soup? Stay in shape? I like the respectful parts that say to back your husband up and correct him in private, build his confidence etc.. but some of these tips imply perfect behavior. ..i don’t mind buying him soup (if I don’t have time to make it) and theraflu when he’s sick… I try to stay in shape for myself… Overall i like the message but women have very difficult standards to meet. No one ever considers that in this day and age it is many of us who work and support our men. Running a household and family should be a joint effort. I think men and women have a communication gap. Men internalize their feelings and make personal decisions without expressing them to us. I agree that they are very under appreciated but like men, sometimes us women need to be told instead of playing detective, psychologist mom and wife. We NEED verbal conformation/assurance and men aren’t verbal. On the flip side, men do communicate here and there and drop hints but we do not receive the message even though it may seem evident to them. Women must learn to listen and men must learn to communicate. In order to even get to that level we have to find the right partner as well. When you understand each other and accept each other it’s half the battle and most things will fall into place. Romance and laugher is crucial. I know men deserve this post and must be appreciated but some of the common mistakes is expectations of perfection. Women are expected to take care of a man’s needs when we have jobs and kids and homes to take care of. A topic that really needs to be spoken of is how to divide responsibility EVENLY; how we can help one another maintain a happy home and relationship in this new day and age. Respect each other, communicate, be on a team, lighten each other’s burdens, discuss how you plan to run a household and take care of responsibilities before you move in with each other. We all over sell ourselves in the beginning just to reel in our partner and then true colors come out too late. The wrong people have kids, feel trapped, have affairs. We can’t get everything we want from different people; we must find a partner who encompasses the most important qualities that balance us out.

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