Logo

Inconsistency: Relationship Suicide

Post By RelatedRelated Post

When I’m asked what a couple can do to reinforce or restore passion in their relationship, I always ask about things they consistently did in the past. Yes, it’s great to be innovative and bring new ideas to a relationship; however, your relationship should have a few consistencies that are regarded as sacred. Some common examples I hear are: praying together every day and/or night, dedicating one day per week to go on a date with each other, sending each other “I love you” or “I’m thinking about you” text messages every day during work hours, and giving each other daily massages. In the autobiography titled “One Day It’ll All Make Sense”, hip-hop artist Common sent Serena Williams cherry pie (her favorite) and roses after each of her matches. Imagine how great a person feels to know at the end of the day, they’ll receive something special from someone they love.

The aforementioned consistencies may seem minute on the surface, but they are daily acts that are executed during the couple’s highs and lows in the relationship. They are reinforcers that assure you you’re loved. When you stop being consistent in your relationship, you’re practically committing relationship suicide. Suspicion may seep into the relationship and/or you may begin to feel unattached to each other. If you’re lacking consistencies in your relationship, I encourage you to start creating some today.

What are some things you consistently do in your relationship? Share your experience! You may be helping someone save their relationship.

 

Ree “The REE-lationship Guide” is a graduate of Clark Atlanta University. She is a contributing writer for YourBlackWorld.net and BlackLikeMoi.com. Follow her Twitter: @iDateDaily

The (Ree)lationship Guide

Ree "The (REE)lationship Guide" is a graduate of Clark Atlanta University. She is a contributing writer for YourBlackWorld.net and BlackLikeMoi.com.

128 Comment

  1. Very interesting info!Perfect just what I was searching for!

  2. I am no longer certain where you’re getting your info, but great topic. I must spend a while learning more or figuring out more. Thank you for fantastic info I used to be on the lookout for this information for my mission.

  3. I haven’t checked in here for some time since I thought it was getting boring, but the last several posts are good quality so I guess I will add you back to my everyday bloglist. You deserve it friend 🙂

  4. Perfectly indited content material, thank you for information.

  5. As soon as I detected this web site I went on reddit to share some of the love with them.

  6. Very neat blog article.Really looking forward to read more. Much obliged.

  7. Thank you ever so for you blog post.Really looking forward to read more. Really Great.

  8. I really like and appreciate your post.Thanks Again. Really Great.

  9. Appreciate you sharing, great post.Thanks Again. Fantastic.

  10. Major thanks for the blog.Really thank you! Awesome.

  11. Thanks-a-mundo for the article.Really looking forward to read more. Really Cool.

  12. Say, you got a nice blog post.Thanks Again. Really Cool.

  13. Thank you ever so for you blog article.Thanks Again. Great.

  14. Say, you got a nice article post.Really thank you! Really Cool.

  15. I truly appreciate this post. I’ve been looking everywhere for this! Thank goodness I found it on Bing. You’ve made my day! Thanks again!

  16. Very informative article post.Really thank you! Awesome.

  17. I value the blog article.Much thanks again. Really Great.

  18. Im obliged for the blog post. Will read on…

  19. Thanks for sharing, this is a fantastic post.Really looking forward to read more. Awesome.

  20. This is one awesome article.Much thanks again. Really Great.

  21. Thanks a lot for the blog.Really looking forward to read more. Awesome.

  22. Very interesting details you have noted, thanks for posting.

  23. Thanks so much for the blog. Really Cool.

  24. Appreciate you sharing, great post. Fantastic.

  25. I believe everybody went like Ones New website, reason being things like this site without doubt has a article on quality. I loved read A New content. go on To remain a useful article, I will avail Once more by One additional time. Bless you.

  26. Major thankies for the post. Really Cool.

  27. Thanks-a-mundo for the article.Thanks Again. Want more.

  28. I really liked your article post.Thanks Again. Cool.

Leave a Comment

Email (will not be published)