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Your Black Woman: You Won’t Get Tired of Being Dogged — Until YOU Get Tired of Being a ‘Bitch’

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By: Nojma Muhammad, Your Black Woman

Oftentimes, I read or I hear some Black Women say that “All Black Men are Dogs”. Well if you subscribe to this theory, then who is giving BIRTH to these so called dogs? If you call yourself a B then your ONLY OPTION is a dog. If you are the so called baddest b**** then your ONLY OPTION is the worst dog.

As women we have dual wombs, so we have the capability to give birth via our physical wombs and via our mental wombs. Our thoughts and actions give birth to certain types of behavior. If we sleep with men without discipline, if marriage isn’t a requirement, because when a man marries a woman he is saying “I am taking responsibility for this woman.” If WE as women don’t make certain requirements and we sleep with men anyway, then say “we got dogged out;” well, who set the TONE for this type of behavior? If NOTHING was required to OBTAIN us, then NOTHING is required to SUSTAIN us. As women, we are the second self of God. God didn’t say I need a b**** to console me, comfort me…..you know why? Because a b**** can’t do those things! How can a dog bring comfort to God? A bitch walks on all fours, so you can’t elevate a man because you are already on a lower level.

via Your Black Woman: You Won’t Get Tired of Being Dogged — Until YOU Get Tired of Being a ‘Bitch’.

 

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  1. This cycle will never end as long as Black girls grow up in a home without their fathers. IMO, fathers are the first men in their little girl’s lives, which sets the standards for what a girl should look for in a man. If a little girl is raised by both parents, with the father letting her know she is and should be loved like a princess and what should not be tolerated from any man for any reason, she will grow up with high expectations on how she should be treated by a man. Conversely, single Black mothers need to start holding their sons to a higher standard where responsibity is cocerned. Stop making excuses for them and if the father is not in the sons’ life, find mentoring programs or whatever is available to and for young Black men, that they will learn how to respect women and take accoutability for their actions.

  2. I have to give much respect and admiration to Ms. Muhammad. I honestly get tired of hearing Black women refer to themselves as bitches and/or “getting dogged” especially after they allowed such nonsense to happen.

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